Coworker Complaints and Employees' Rights
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What do you do if an employee complains about her work being disrupted by another employee's loud voice? Asked by hlinane.
Too Loud!
A Conumdrum
This is a very interesting question, because during my first full-time job in a major downtown company, employees were not ALLOWED to speak at all during working hours - only on breaks, in the restrooms, and at lunch; and of course, before and after work.
It seems that in 2010, complaints of Individual Rights abuse are lodged every time that a person In the workplace is asked to cease unacceptable behavior. There are so many INDIVIDUAL rights these days, cancelling one other out, that perhaps there are simply no rights left at all - for employers OR workers.
How does any work get done in this country? - One might ask this question.
Speaking in the workplace is mandatory in a number of work sites, in numerous jobs, and among myriad industries. You can't get any work done without verbal communications in these settings. However, some type.style/magnitude/timing of speech is still inapprorpiate to each individual setting. Workers must police themselves and supervisors must stay aware of these problems. Failing this, Human Reosurces (HR), State EEO regulations, and legal actions can become involved.
Does your Coworker Break the Sound Barrier?
Noisemakers and Mental Health Issues
Some people make noise in order to assert their "power." Usually the Power to Annoy.
EXAMPLES
Certain individuals engage in constant throat clearing or stomping as they walk, in order to assert themselves as powerful or important and/or to intimidate others. These perpetrators are not those persons that suffer from Tourette's Syndrome, smoker's cough, cancer, an infection - or down below, physical gait problems. They are not those who are unaware of their behaviors. They do it purposely, their feet sometimes encased in high heels on hard floors, sometimes coughing and stomping at once. In the past, I have ignored these people with the result that their behaviors escalated to a point at which they embarrassed themselves and stopped. One, in fact, was fired for this and other such behaviors during work hours. It seems she spent all her time coughing and stomping and missed all her deadlines.
What are the solutions? Ignore these people if you have that type of skill. Wear earplugs if you can. Wear iPod earbuds and listen to something else, if permitted. In the extreme, file a complaint with your supervisor - if it IS the supervisor, file a complaint with HR and cite a hostile work environment.
In the case of a coworker with Tourette's, you may need to quit and go work someplace else.
In the case of a tremendously loud smoker's cough, the person can be advised to seek medical help. You can approach this person politely at first and if no cooperation is obtained, then go to your supervisor for help. Then go up the chain to HR, if needed. You would need to file a statement or complaint that you cannot complete your work because of the inappropriately high levels of noise. This would be a method to use for instances of excessive noise(s), bad body odors, and related matters.
In one local case here, an employee removed one shoe and pounded it on his desktop ala Cold War Nikita Kruschev every time the stomping began from a supervisor in high heels on a linoleum floor. He stopped when she did. Enraged, one day after this drama, she verbally accosted him. He rang out, "If you are allowed to make unnecessary noise, then so I am I!" Happily, the stomping ended. I thought that to be pretty good self defense, without throwing a punch.
EXTREMES: If an employee urinates into the trash can beside his desk, then this is a mental health problem for which you need to go to your supervisor immediately. If the supervisor is not in the work area, leave the floor and notify someone in authority. That party may have Security forces in the building help the person to the company clinic or call the EMTs. Don't try to handle the person alone.
Noise!
Loud Talkers
If you have nothing to say, say it loud!
Someone once said that; I do not know who. Facts are that you must determine if a Loud Talker in the workplace is
- Unaware that he is using an outdoor voice;
- Hard of hearing, partially deaf;
- Asserting authority; or
- Being annoying on purpose, because he is a) abusive and dares you to do something about it or b) thinks it's funny - also abusive.
If the coworker is unaware or going deaf, first approach the person in private and discuss the matter. If this does not work or the person is being pompous, intimidating (abusive), or purposefully annoying, then follow the procedures listed in the paragraphs above for noise and other problems.
IF a person who is bothered by the Loud Talker complains to YOU instead of following a procedure that actually works, then tell the person to follow the steps above. If the person will not do it, then tell the person that you do not want to hear any more about it and stay firm in that decision. If all three of you work together, you may have to follow the steps yourself - against the person that is interrupting your work by complaining.
Talkin' Loud and Sayin' Nothing
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Your information is awesome. I love the picture of the Jet breaking the sound barrier! Your note sbout the nothing to say voice becomming louder is perfection. Odd how loud talkers can be the cause of coworkers complaints. As always, good stuff.
K9
I hate those extreme cases like a co-worker urinating in a trash can. Nice advice.
Awesome hub. A variety one. In grown countries people care for every thing.
Personally, I have not problems with my co-workers. It is the most wonderful place to work in the world. But, when I have come up against annoying co-workers, I have generally used compassion and listening to deal with them. If I am annoyed, I try to see it as my problem and try to figure out why I am annoyed and work diligently to change the way I feel. This usually solves the problem for me and makes me feel lots better about the situation. Your examples of extreme co-worker problems are things I have never had to deal with. However, I do deal with students like this all the time and we do use security and the local police.
WOW. I can't imagine any of those things happening, but I am sure they do. I would have to laugh at the foot stomper, since they were being silly... so would I.
Great Hub, Great Advice!
What about the case where the co-workers are deaf and you have to speak up so they can hear you? Where I work, there is a lot of background noise and my co-workers continually ask "what?" or "huh?" whenever I say something, so I speak up the second time I repeat myself, then they get mad because I'm talking too loud!
I've gotten to the point where I just won't speak to them at all. If I absolutely have to speak to one of the girls, it's automatic that she makes me repeat myself. Every time! So, I just avoid her. I swear she's totally deaf.
This is an awesome article. I really enjoyed the very first video. lol
Life is relationships and how we can establish, maintain and terminate them. Complaints as you noted are dynamic and our responses must be. Great information.
Very good subject to raise and you dealt with it very well in you hub.
Hmmm, I've tried sending emails regarding things I need to say, but the worst offenders don't or won't read them. So now I do use a lot of hand signals, LOL! (Not offensive ones).
I have even gone so far as to pick up the object in question and place it in front of them and demo what I'm trying to say. Apparently, some are not able to understand English and must have visuals.
Oh, I have tried writing on the white board. My message is still up there after 7 months and 3 of the 5 people that need to read it still have not. Or they are ignoring it. (Instructions on how to order supplies on TUESDAYS of EVERY week). Instead, they drop by on Wednesday and ask, "Is it too late to order xyz? I just want to scream sometimes.
I have. They ignore me and go to the director and make her order the supplies they forgot to order. She hasn't seemed to notice that they have pulled this same scam for almost 3 years now. And the note is STILL on the white board for all to see. Of course, she is one of the ones that forgets to order on Tuesdays as well.
What he did with a shoe on the desk was ingenious. Thanks for understanding this problem.
At our pinnacle are these so called "Managers" who feel that because they are, they can go all out and discuss us simlpe beings and our plights.
I have recently been stressed out because the HR manager discusses my medical condition with her cohorts (managers) on the phone while standing up in our open space office.
Its a wacky situation because she will say that it serves me right for eavesdropping, I imagine.
Following the chain of command is best in these situations. Some people are just loud no matter what, but it makes you wonder how they got the job in the first place. Maybe they know not to talk too loudly when being interviewed, go figure!! Voted/rated.
I have a Tourette's sufferer in the cube next to me on a job I have just started. I am not sure I can take the constant grunts and outbursts. The advice to seek a new job does not work for me as a 20 year employee with a pension! Any advice on dealing with this?
Ms. Inglish,
Such a touchy subject handled so professionally! Thank you for providing. I love the videos. You've obviously love your work and have a great sense of humor.
Thanks for providing and making an HR Guy's day!
I am looking forward to diving into more of your hubs.
All the best,
Johnny

























drbj Level 8 Commenter 19 months ago
Loud talkers and heel stompers are just like the bellowing bulls I wrote about in Dealing with Difficult People. Sometimes you just have to stand up to them. Thanks for reminding us, Patty.